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Around the Year in Children's Church

52 Programs for Kids Ages 3-7

Abingdon Press

Mary and the Angel

Message:

God chose Mary to be the mother of Jesus.

Greeting with a Gift Bag

Locate a representation of Mary from a Nativity set, greeting card, or story illustration. Place it in a gift bag.

Greet the children. Hold up the gift bag. Choose a child to reach into the bag and discover what's inside. Have the child show the group.

Ask: Who do you think this person might be? Why is Mary special?

Say: God chose Mary to be the mother of Jesus. We don't know exactly how Mary looked because she lived long ago, but artists use their imaginations to help us understand that she was a real person.

Getting Set for the Story

Say: Mary was chosen by God to be the mother of Jesus. Let's hear the Bible story written in the book of Luke.

Say: You will play a listening game as I read. There are three special words you'll hear over and over. When you hear "God," point to heaven. When you hear "angel," flap your hands at ear level. When you hear "Mary," fold your hands in prayer.

Demonstrate the motions, and then say the words as the children practice each one.

Telling the Story

Say: GOD sent the ANGEL Gabriel to a city in Galilee called Nazareth. In Nazareth, there lived a young woman named MARY. MARY was engaged to be married to Joseph. Joseph's family was related to the famous king David, who had lived a long time before them.

When the ANGEL came to MARY, he brought a message from GOD. "Rejoice, favored one!" said the ANGEL to MARY. "The Lord is with you!"

MARY was surprised to see an ANGEL, and she was confused by his message. MARY wondered what sort of greeting the ANGEL had given her.

Bible Verse

When the angel came to her, he said, "Rejoice, favored one! The Lord is with you!" (Luke 1:28)

Supplies

• Representation of Mary

• Holiday gift bag

The ANGEL understood MARY'S feelings. He said, "Do not be afraid. GOD is honoring you. You will have a baby boy. You will call him Jesus. He will be great and the Son of the Most High."

Then MARY said, "I am the Lord's servant. Let it be with me just as you have said." After hearing MARY's answer, the ANGEL left her.

Exploring

Make Good News Angels to remember Gabriel's visit to Mary. You'll need two coffee filters for each angel.

Before Children's Church, trace and cut two inch circles from paper for the angels' heads. Also, for each angel, open a filter by gently pulling on the crimped side and bottom, resulting in a flat semi-circle. These will be the wings. Finally, for each angel, from another filter, cut off the crimped narrow bottom. This will be the angel's gown.

Make a sample Good News Angel to show the children. Scrunch the wings in the center. Wrap a strip of tape around the gathers. Open up the angel's gown with the long crimped seam down the back, and tape the wings to the top (on the crimped seam).

To complete the angel, draw a face on the paper circle. Attach the face to the front of the gown.

Say: Meet my Good News Angel!

Guide the children through the steps. If you wish, let the children color the angel's gown. Glitter glue may be used to create a halo or decorate the angel's wings or gown. Have the children put their names or initials on their angels.

Invite everyone to hold her or his Good News Angel and say, "Rejoice, favored one!"

Say: "Rejoice, favored one!" means "Be joyful. You are special."

Ask: Why was Mary special?

Say: God chose Mary to be the mother of Jesus. The angel told Mary that God loved her and that her baby would be holy. Mary was happy to receive this good news.

Set the Good News Angels aside.

Celebrating with Music

Teach the children the first verse of "To a Maid Engaged to Joseph" by playing a recording or singing the song for them. This Christmas carol is available on CDs and is included in many hymnals.

More Exploring

The children will be messengers in the Names of Jesus Game as they take turns declaring the names given to Jesus.

Before Children's Church, print each of these names on a separate card:

Wonderful Counselor (Isaiah 9:6)

Mighty God (Isaiah 9:6)

Eternal Father (Isaiah 9:6)

Pray

Holy God, we thank you for choosing Mary to be the mother of Jesus, and we thank you for the angel, Gabriel, who brought the good news. Amen.

Supplies

• #4 white cone coffee filters

• Paper

• Pencil

• Tape

• Scissors

• Markers or crayons

• Glitter glue (optional)

Supplies

• Index cards

• Pen

• Two containers

Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6)

Jesus (Luke 1:31)

Son of the Most High (Luke 1:32)

Christ (Matthew 1:16)

Alpha and Omega (Revelation 1:8)

Good Shepherd (John 10:14)

King of Kings (Revelation 19:16)

Lord of Lords (Revelation 19:16)

Emmanuel (Matthew 1:23)

Savior (Titus 3:6)

The Word (John 1:1)

You'll need two containers. Put the Names of Jesus cards into one of them.

When it's time to play the game, place the container holding the names at one end of the room. Have the children line up by that container. You will stand at the other end of the room with the empty container.

Say: In our Bible story, Mary was told to name her baby Jesus. The name Jesus means "He will save his people." The people who recorded God's word in the Bible also used more names to describe who Jesus was and what he did.

Say: Let's play the Names of Jesus Game! You are messengers and will each take a turn picking a name card from the container. When it's your turn, bring the Names of Jesus card to me. I will say, "Thank you, messenger! This card says ... Will you please announce the name to the group?" Then you will say, "Hail, favored ones! The baby's name is______."

Recycle the cards back into the container to accommodate all the children or to play the game again. Conclude by reading all of the Names of Jesus cards.

Say: The angel Gabriel was a messenger from God. Today you've been messengers for Jesus, proclaiming his many names!

Bonus Activity

Art books, Christmas books, or children's Bibles often have illustrations of Mary and angels. Bookmark these illustrations to share with the children. As you show each one, tell the children the title of the work of art and the artist, when given. Encourage comments and questions.

Saying Goodbye

Give the children their Good News Angels. Hand out the Names of Jesus cards if you wish.

Say: The Advent season begins with the angel Gabriel bringing a message to Mary. God chose Mary to be the mother of Jesus. Rejoice!

Note

If you have children who can read, encourage them to read the name for themselves. Remind the children that "Hail, favored ones!" means "Be happy! You are special!"

Supplies

• Books with illustrations of Mary and angels

• Bookmarks

Joseph Has a Dream

Message:

Joseph believed in God's plan.

Greeting with a Gift Bag

Locate a representation of Joseph from a Nativity set, greeting card, or story illustration. Place it in the gift bag. Have the representation of Mary from last week visible. Greet the children. Hold up the gift bag. Invite them, one by one, to gently squeeze the bag.

Choose a child to reach into the bag and pull out what's inside. Have the child show the group. Place the representation of Joseph next to that of Mary.

Getting Set for the Story

Lead the story in the character of Joseph. To set the scene, consider wearing a headscarf as Joseph did. A scarf or a piece of fabric tied with ribbon, rope, or a sash will work well.

Ask: Do you remember some of your dreams?

Say: Hold up your hand if you have happy dreams. Silly dreams. Scary dreams. Dreams about your friends and family.

In today's Christmas story, we'll hear about a man who has an important and holy dream.

Telling the Story

Greetings to you! My name is Joseph, and I am a carpenter. My home and my workshop are in the city of Nazareth. I enjoy making useful and beautiful things with my hands and with tools.

I earn enough money to support a family, so I asked Mary's family if we could be married. Mary is lovely, energetic, sweet-natured, and skillful. She will be a fine wife.

But let me tell you about a dream I had last night. As I slept, an angel came to me and said, "Joseph, Son of David, I bring you good news! Mary will have a baby, and you will call him Jesus. He will be special because he will tell all the people that God loves them."

I am so happy! Mary will have a special baby sent from God. I will help Mary raise this baby and he will do great things. I will love and protect this holy baby.

Please excuse me. I must go see Mary right away. We are going to get married!

Exploring

Children will remember Joseph's dream and their own dreams with Dream Folders.

Say: The angel told Joseph to not be afraid and to take Mary as his wife. The angel also explained that a holy baby would be born and that Joseph should name him Jesus.

Give each child a manila folder.

Bible Verse

She will give birth to a son, and you will call him Jesus. (Matthew 1:21)

Supplies

• Representation of Mary from last week

• Representation of Joseph

• Holiday gift bag

Supplies

• Headscarf or fabric and something to tie it with (optional)

Pray

Holy God, thank you for sending Jesus to tell us that you love us. Thank you for Joseph and Mary, who helped Jesus to grow. Help us to know that you love and care for us. Amen.

Supplies

• Plain manila folders

• Paper

• Crayons

Say: On the front of your folder, draw Joseph's dream as you imagine it.

Set out crayons. Prompt the children by recounting parts of the story. Have them write their names on the front of their folders.

After the drawings are finished, ask each child to describe her or his dream picture.

Say: Some people like to write down their dreams. They keep a dream journal. They read the journals later and think about their dreams. This folder will now become your own dream journal! You can draw pictures of your dreams and keep them in your Dream Folder.

Give each child three sheets of paper to put in the folder. Set the Dream Folders aside.

Celebrating with Music

Teach children "Jesus Is a Gift from God," set to the tune of "Mary Had a Little Lamb."

More Exploring

Play the Messengers and Dreamers Game. Divide the children into two groups. If you have an uneven number, you can fill in as a player. Assign one group to be the Messengers and the other to be the Dreamers. Place the Messengers opposite the Dreamers, in two lines facing one another, as far apart as possible.

Say: In our Messengers and Dreamers Game, each of you will have two turns as the angel bringing a message and two turns as Joseph hearing the message in a dream.

Explain that the Messengers are to fly to the Dreamers across from them and whisper the message you will give them. Say each message softly to the Messengers just before they deliver it.

• Message One: I have good news.

• Message Two: Mary will have a baby.

Next, have the groups switch roles so the Dreamers are now the Messengers and vice versa.

• Message Three: You will name him "Jesus."

• Message Four: He will tell about God's love.

When the game is finished, ask the children to repeat all four messages.

Say: Very good! We can tell the good news.

Bonus Activity

Let children use their Dream Folders to draw one of their own dreams. As the children finish, ask them to explain their drawings.

Saying Goodbye

Give the children their Dream Folders.

Say: God sent an angel to Joseph in a dream. The angel told Joseph about the coming of Jesus as a baby. Joseph loved God and promised to help Mary by being a good parent to Jesus.

Jesus is a gift from God, gift from God, gift from God.

Jesus is a gift from God born on Christmas Day.

Bethlehem Bound

Message:

Jesus will be born in Bethlehem.

Greeting with a Gift Bag

Locate a representation of a donkey from a Nativity set, greeting card, or story illustration. Place it in the gift bag. Have the representations of Mary and Joseph from the past two weeks visible. Greet the children. Hold up the gift bag. Choose a child to reach into the bag and discover what's inside. Have the child show the donkey to the group.

Open the Bible and read aloud Luke 2:1-5.

Ask: When you take a trip to the store, to school, to church, or to visit friends and family, how do you get there?

Say: In Mary and Joseph's time, there were no cars, buses, subways, bicycles, skateboards, motorcycles, or airplanes. In those days there were carts and chariots pulled by animals, horses and donkeys to be ridden, and a variety of boats to cross water. Often people just used their feet to walk where they wanted to go. In today's story, we'll imagine what it was like for Mary and Joseph to travel to Bethlehem with the help of a donkey.

Say: While I tell the story, let's act it out.

Instruct the children to walk in place, or to follow you from room to room as you tell the story, pantomiming the actions that Mary and Joseph did.

Telling the Story

Early one morning, Joseph loaded clothes, blankets, and other supplies onto his donkey's back. At her home, Mary packed food and drink for them.(Pantomime packing.)

Joseph's neighbors waved and said, "Go with God" as he rode the donkey to meet Mary. Mary got on the donkey and waved goodbye to her friends. "Go with God," they called. (Wave to your friends.)

As the sun rose over the rooftops, Mary and Joseph left Nazareth and walked for miles. (Walk, walk, walk.) At lunch, they rested on a hilltop. (Eat lunch.)

That afternoon, Mary rode the donkey for hours and hours until they came to the home of Joseph's relatives. (Walk, walk, walk.) After supper, they said their prayers and slept. (Pray, then sleep.)

The next day, Joseph and Mary walked and walked. (Walk, walk, walk.) In the afternoon, Mary rode the donkey, but she felt so tired that Joseph stopped and made camp for the night. They thanked God for one another and fell asleep. (Pray, then sleep.)

As they began a new day on the road, Mary and Joseph saw many other travelers. People going the same way chatted, and they waved to those they knew. (Wave at your friends.) Mary and Joseph walked for hours. (Walk, walk, walk.) At nightfall, they prayed and then slept in an olive grove among other travelers. (Pray, then sleep.)

Later the next morning, (Walk, walk, walk.) Mary and Joseph stopped at awell for fresh water. (Drink from your hands.) After hours on the road, they found a guesthouse and thanked God. (Pray, then sleep.)

Bible Verse

Joseph ... went up from the city of Nazareth in Galilee to ... Bethlehem. (Luke 2:4)

Supplies

• Bible

• Representations of Mary and Joseph from previous weeks

• Representation of a donkey

• Holiday gift bag

The following morning, Mary and Joseph had to wait as several shepherds and their flocks crossed the road. (Stop and tap foot.) After walking for many more miles (Walk, walk, walk.), Joseph's sandal strap broke, so he took another pair from his pack. (Put on sandal.) That night they took the last room in the guesthouse, said their prayers, and slept. (Pray, then sleep.)

On the next day, the donkey was acting stubborn. Mary coaxed him with some treats. (Pretend to give the donkey treats.) She knew the donkey was tired, too. They went on, hour after hour, mile after mile. (Walk, walk, walk.) Finally, they found a guesthouse. (Pray, then sleep.)

The following day was difficult. (Walk, walk, walk.) The roads were especially crowded. Late in the afternoon, Mary needed to stop. (Stop walking.) A woman passing by saw that Mary was expecting a baby and invited Mary and Joseph to stay the night at her home. (Pray, then sleep.)

The next day, as they came near the big city of Jerusalem, the crowds were huge. They stopped at a guesthouse earlier than usual, offered evening prayers, and then they slept. (Pray, then sleep.)

Mary and Joseph left at daybreak, determined to reach the city of Bethlehem. (Walk, walk, walk.) They traveled all morning and all afternoon. As the sun sank low in the sky, they came in to Bethlehem. Mary and Joseph praised God that they had arrived safely. They knew the baby Jesus would be born here in Bethlehem.

Exploring

Make Go with God Greeting Cards. If you use photocopied maps, invite the children to color a dot on Nazareth and one on Bethlehem. Have them draw a line between the two cities. Next, ask them to fold the paper in half, so the map is on the inside. Have them print "Go with God" on the front of the card and then decorate the card with drawings, and foil star stickers if available.

For plain paper, fold the paper in half. Have the children write "Go with God" on the front. Suggest they draw vehicles used for travel on the inside, such as cars, boats, subways, planes, and bicycles. Add foil star stickers if available.

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