Love Stories: Language, Private Love, and Public Romance in Georgia

In the remote highlands of the country of Georgia, a small group of mountaindwellers called the Khevsurs used to express sexuality and romance in ways that appear to be highly paradoxical. On the one hand, their practices were romantic, but could never lead to marriage. On the other hand, they were sexual, but didn't correspond to what North Americans, or most Georgians, would have called sex. These practices were well documented by early ethnographers before they disappeared completely by the midtwentieth century, and have become a Georgian obsession. In this fascinating book, Manning recreates the story of how these private, secretive practices became a matter of national interest, concern, and fantasy. Looking at personal expressions of love and the circulation of these narratives at the broader public level of the modern nation, Love Stories offers an ethnography of language and desire that doubles as an introduction to key linguistic genres and to the interplay of language and culture.

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Love Stories: Language, Private Love, and Public Romance in Georgia

In the remote highlands of the country of Georgia, a small group of mountaindwellers called the Khevsurs used to express sexuality and romance in ways that appear to be highly paradoxical. On the one hand, their practices were romantic, but could never lead to marriage. On the other hand, they were sexual, but didn't correspond to what North Americans, or most Georgians, would have called sex. These practices were well documented by early ethnographers before they disappeared completely by the midtwentieth century, and have become a Georgian obsession. In this fascinating book, Manning recreates the story of how these private, secretive practices became a matter of national interest, concern, and fantasy. Looking at personal expressions of love and the circulation of these narratives at the broader public level of the modern nation, Love Stories offers an ethnography of language and desire that doubles as an introduction to key linguistic genres and to the interplay of language and culture.

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Love Stories: Language, Private Love, and Public Romance in Georgia

Love Stories: Language, Private Love, and Public Romance in Georgia

by Paul Manning
Love Stories: Language, Private Love, and Public Romance in Georgia

Love Stories: Language, Private Love, and Public Romance in Georgia

by Paul Manning

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In the remote highlands of the country of Georgia, a small group of mountaindwellers called the Khevsurs used to express sexuality and romance in ways that appear to be highly paradoxical. On the one hand, their practices were romantic, but could never lead to marriage. On the other hand, they were sexual, but didn't correspond to what North Americans, or most Georgians, would have called sex. These practices were well documented by early ethnographers before they disappeared completely by the midtwentieth century, and have become a Georgian obsession. In this fascinating book, Manning recreates the story of how these private, secretive practices became a matter of national interest, concern, and fantasy. Looking at personal expressions of love and the circulation of these narratives at the broader public level of the modern nation, Love Stories offers an ethnography of language and desire that doubles as an introduction to key linguistic genres and to the interplay of language and culture.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9781442608993
Publisher: University of Toronto Press, Higher Education Division
Publication date: 05/15/2015
Sold by: Barnes & Noble
Format: eBook
Pages: 192
File size: 5 MB

About the Author

Paul Manning is Associate Professor of Anthropology at Trent University and former editor of the Journal of Linguistic Anthropology.

Table of Contents

List of Illustrations
Acknowledgments
Introduction: Setting the Stage for Romance

A Brief Introduction to Khevsur Love
Well, Did They, or Didn't They?
Georgian Stereotypes about Khevsurs and "the Romance of the Mountains"
Language and Desire: Genres and Practices
The Khevsurs in History
Plan of the Book

1. THE AMBASSADOR
The Elchi as Mediator
Autonomy, Persuasion, and Desire
The Elchi at Work: A Girl's First Night of Sts'orproba
Conversation 1: The Elchi and the Girl
Conversation 2: The Elchi and the Boy
Conversation 3: The Elchi and the Mother

2. SPENDING THE NIGHT TOGETHER
Lying Down and Getting Up: Sociable Talk and Sociable Sexuality
Intimate Contact: Prohibition and Transgression
Boundary: Sex
Boundary: Marriage
Sociability and Obligation
The Role of Different Genres

3. GOING STEADY
The Social Life of Vodka
Going with Vodka
Visiting Vodka
Road Vodka
The Sexual Life of Vodka
Stealing Vodka
Saving and Hiding Vodka
Drinking Vodka
From Casual to Durable Sexual Relations:
Sts'orperis and Dzmobilis
The Dzmobili Relationship and Its Rivals
Night and Day
Creating and Maintaining Durable Relationships over Time
Creating the Relationship: Oaths and Hints
Maintaining the Relationship: Waiting and Exchange

4. INVISIBLE LOVE POETRY
The Invisibility of Khevsur Love Poetry: The Absence of the Lyric Mode
Articulating Desire in Pshavian Lyric
The Erasure of Desire in Khevsur Love Poetry
Anonymity: Erasure of the Author of Love Poetry
Replacing Individual Desire with Desirability in Praise Poetry

5. DEMONS, DANGER, AND DESIRE: THE "ARAGVIAN" SEXUAL REVOLUTION
Scandal Narratives
Russian Marriage
The Aragvian Way of Love
Khevsur Girls' Love Stories: Three Case Studies
Mariemi's Story
Nanuk'i's Story
Ashekali's Story

6. INTELLIGENTSIA AND PEOPLE: A LOVE STORY
Genres of Realism and Romance
The Story of Natela: A Khevsur Romance of the Nineteenth Century
The Story of Natela: A Native Ethnographer of the Twentieth Century

7. ECHOES OF LOVE LOST: SOCIALIST NOVELS AND FILMS
Socialist Ethnographies
Modernist Novels
Socialist Films
Modernity and Tradition: Frame Narrative and Framed Narrative
Romance, Poetry, and Violence
Echoes of Sts'orproba

Conclusion: Virtual Romance

From Film to Image: Khevsurs in Late-Socialist Art
Virtual Romance on Georgian Teen Forums

Glossary
References
Index

What People are Saying About This

Deborah Cameron

This story opens up questions not only about sex, romance, language, politics, and history, but also about what we know and how we come to know it. It's the kind of book instructors are always on the lookout for: a sophisticated treatment of a complex subject, which is also a compelling read.

Don Kulick

Take a walk on the mild side, with some crazy twists. Love Stories is about how bossy matchmakers, stolen vodka, poetic jousting, and careful unbuttonings on narrow beds add up to a romantic relationship that is the opposite of sex and the opposite of marriage. Unexpected, compelling, unsettling, and fun.

Laura Miller

Paul Manning's splendid account exemplifies the best of social science description and analysis. He takes us along on a captivating journey through the stages of poetically ritualized romance and coupling, revealing much about Georgian history and culture along the way. Beyond introducing us to the Khevsur people and disrupting simplistic thinking about romance and desire, the book masterfully gives life to some core ideas in anthropology, sociology, and linguistics.

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