The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self, Third Edition
Why are many of the most successful people plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation? This wise and profound book has provided thousands of readers with an answer—and has helped them to apply it to their own lives.Far too many of us had to learn as children to hide our own feelings, needs, and memories skillfully in order to meet our parents’ expectations and win their ”love.” Alice Miller writes, ”When I used the word ’gifted’ in the title, I had in mind neither children who receive high grades in school nor children talented in a special way. I simply meant all of us who have survived an abusive childhood thanks to an ability to adapt even to unspeakable cruelty by becoming numb… Without this ’gift’ offered us by nature, we would not have survived.” But merely surviving is not enough. The Drama of the Gifted Child helps us to reclaim our life by discovering our own crucial needs and our own truth.
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The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self, Third Edition
Why are many of the most successful people plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation? This wise and profound book has provided thousands of readers with an answer—and has helped them to apply it to their own lives.Far too many of us had to learn as children to hide our own feelings, needs, and memories skillfully in order to meet our parents’ expectations and win their ”love.” Alice Miller writes, ”When I used the word ’gifted’ in the title, I had in mind neither children who receive high grades in school nor children talented in a special way. I simply meant all of us who have survived an abusive childhood thanks to an ability to adapt even to unspeakable cruelty by becoming numb… Without this ’gift’ offered us by nature, we would not have survived.” But merely surviving is not enough. The Drama of the Gifted Child helps us to reclaim our life by discovering our own crucial needs and our own truth.
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The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self, Third Edition

The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self, Third Edition

by Alice Miller
The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self, Third Edition

The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self, Third Edition

by Alice Miller

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Why are many of the most successful people plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation? This wise and profound book has provided thousands of readers with an answer—and has helped them to apply it to their own lives.Far too many of us had to learn as children to hide our own feelings, needs, and memories skillfully in order to meet our parents’ expectations and win their ”love.” Alice Miller writes, ”When I used the word ’gifted’ in the title, I had in mind neither children who receive high grades in school nor children talented in a special way. I simply meant all of us who have survived an abusive childhood thanks to an ability to adapt even to unspeakable cruelty by becoming numb… Without this ’gift’ offered us by nature, we would not have survived.” But merely surviving is not enough. The Drama of the Gifted Child helps us to reclaim our life by discovering our own crucial needs and our own truth.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780786743612
Publisher: Basic Books
Publication date: 12/15/2008
Sold by: Hachette Digital, Inc.
Format: eBook
Pages: 144
Sales rank: 39,764
File size: 206 KB

About the Author

Alice Miller has achieved worldwide recognition for her work on the causes and effects of childhood traumas. Her books include The Drama of the Gifted Child, Banished Knowledge, Breaking Down the Wall of Silence, Thou Shalt Not Be Aware, and For Your Own Good. She lives in Switzerland.

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments
Introduction to the Revised Edition (1994)1
1The Drama of the Gifted Child and How We Became Psychotherapists27
The Poor Rich Child30
The Lost World of Feelings34
In Search of the True Self38
The Therapist's History44
The Golden Brain50
2Depression and Grandiosity: Two Related Forms of Denial52
The Vicissitudes of the Child's Needs52
The Illusion of Love57
Depressive Phases During Therapy74
The Inner Prison77
A Social Aspect of Depression82
The Legend of Narcissus86
3The Vicious Circle of Contempt87
Humiliation for the Child, Disrespect for the Weak, and Where It Goes from There87
Working with Contempt in Therapy98
"Depravity" as "Evil" in Hermann Hesse's Childhood World110
The Mother as Society's Agent During the First Years of Life116
The Loneliness of the Contemptuous119
Achieving Freedom from Contempt and Respecting Life123
Afterword129
Works Cited137
Appendix141
Index145

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