The Lies We Tell Ourselves: How to Face the Truth, Accept Yourself, and Create a Better Life

Do you feel stuck in your life? Do you wonder why? Does something seem wrong, but you can't put your finger on it? In The Lies We Tell Ourselves, psychotherapist Jon Frederickson reveals the ways we fool ourselves and how to get unstuck.

Through dozens of stories and examples, he demonstrates that the apparent cause of our problems is almost never the real cause. In addition, he reveals what we really fear and how to face it. In the spirit of Stephen Grosz and Irving Yalom, Frederickson shows how to recognize the lies we tell ourselves and face the truths we have avoided--and stop saying yes when we really mean no.

Although we may use falsehoods to escape pain, clinging to our fantasies actually becomes the source of greater suffering. This book shows how to create a better life by letting go of our lies and facing reality. It also demonstrates that therapy is not merely a chat; it is a relationship between two people devoted to facing the deepest truths of our lives so we can be healed.

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The Lies We Tell Ourselves: How to Face the Truth, Accept Yourself, and Create a Better Life

Do you feel stuck in your life? Do you wonder why? Does something seem wrong, but you can't put your finger on it? In The Lies We Tell Ourselves, psychotherapist Jon Frederickson reveals the ways we fool ourselves and how to get unstuck.

Through dozens of stories and examples, he demonstrates that the apparent cause of our problems is almost never the real cause. In addition, he reveals what we really fear and how to face it. In the spirit of Stephen Grosz and Irving Yalom, Frederickson shows how to recognize the lies we tell ourselves and face the truths we have avoided--and stop saying yes when we really mean no.

Although we may use falsehoods to escape pain, clinging to our fantasies actually becomes the source of greater suffering. This book shows how to create a better life by letting go of our lies and facing reality. It also demonstrates that therapy is not merely a chat; it is a relationship between two people devoted to facing the deepest truths of our lives so we can be healed.

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The Lies We Tell Ourselves: How to Face the Truth, Accept Yourself, and Create a Better Life

The Lies We Tell Ourselves: How to Face the Truth, Accept Yourself, and Create a Better Life

by Jon Frederickson
The Lies We Tell Ourselves: How to Face the Truth, Accept Yourself, and Create a Better Life

The Lies We Tell Ourselves: How to Face the Truth, Accept Yourself, and Create a Better Life

by Jon Frederickson

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Do you feel stuck in your life? Do you wonder why? Does something seem wrong, but you can't put your finger on it? In The Lies We Tell Ourselves, psychotherapist Jon Frederickson reveals the ways we fool ourselves and how to get unstuck.

Through dozens of stories and examples, he demonstrates that the apparent cause of our problems is almost never the real cause. In addition, he reveals what we really fear and how to face it. In the spirit of Stephen Grosz and Irving Yalom, Frederickson shows how to recognize the lies we tell ourselves and face the truths we have avoided--and stop saying yes when we really mean no.

Although we may use falsehoods to escape pain, clinging to our fantasies actually becomes the source of greater suffering. This book shows how to create a better life by letting go of our lies and facing reality. It also demonstrates that therapy is not merely a chat; it is a relationship between two people devoted to facing the deepest truths of our lives so we can be healed.


Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780988378889
Publisher: Seven Leaves Press
Publication date: 01/01/2017
Pages: 174
Sales rank: 112,754
Product dimensions: 5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 2.30(d)

Table of Contents

Preface v

Introduction 1

Chapter 1 Something Is Wrong 5

Chapter 2 How We Avoid the Truth of Our Lives 25

Chapter 3 The Refusal to Embrace 53

Chapter 4 Die Before You Die 89

Chapter 5 Being the Opening for Truth 103

Chapter 6 Embracing 127

Epilogue 157

Acknowledgments 159

Notes 161

About the Author 167

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