Carl Pickhardt, PhD, is a psychologist in a private counseling practice. Dr. Pickhardt, whose books include Why Good Kids Act Cruel, The Connected Father, The Future of Your Only Child and Stop the Screaming, is married with four grown children and one grandchild. He lives in Austin, TX.
Boomerang Kids: A Revealing Look at Why So Many of Our Children Are Failing on Their Own, and How Parents Can Help
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ISBN-13:
9781402248597
- Publisher: Sourcebooks, Incorporated
- Publication date: 08/01/2011
- Sold by: Barnes & Noble
- Format: eBook
- Pages: 336
- File size: 912 KB
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In this breakthrough book, Carl Pickhardt exposes a hidden period of development that's causing college and post high school age kids to fail on their own. His new approach to understanding young adulthood proposes that, as a society, we expect 18- to 24-year-olds to have reached adulthood, when in reality they have reached the final stage of adolescence, called "trial independence." Boomerang Kids shows parents how to understand this little-discussed period in their child's life and the helpful role they can play during this time to ensure their child's success.
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""A must-read for any parent frustrated or heartbroken over their child's difficulties striking out on their own."" - Kirkus
""I imagine I will keep this book handy and refer back to it for years to come, as my husband and I move through this stage with our daughters. I can also see how it would be helpful to parents of younger adolescents, as it can help them understand some of what their children are going through and how that may play out in the future."" - Mother Daughter Book Club
""Will help postgrad kids handle the 11 most common challenges young people face, like managing increased freedom, unemployment, and broken romantic relationships."" - Library Journal
Parenting expert and therapist Pickhardt (Why Good Kids Act Cruel: The Hidden Truth About the Pre-Teen Years, 2010, etc.) tackles the issue of recently graduated students failing in the "real world" and provides suggestions on how concerned parents can help.
The author, who writes the parenting blog "Surviving (Your Child's) Adolescence" forPsychology Today, begins by defining the concept of adolescence in all its stages before investigating the concept of delayed maturity (what he terms "trial independence") and what that means for your child. Pickhardt offers a practical guide for understanding and supporting early adults as individuals while still respecting their nascent freedom. Children who fail on their own often find themselves returning to their original state—back under their parents' roof. The author candidly discusses how parenting styles must evolve to create sustainable relationships as children first enter adulthood. Each chapter provides fictitious examples of a challenge a late-stage adolescent will face while entering into a living and working situation that is entirely self-supported. The strength of the book is its thoroughness—the author draws from his experiences counseling parents and children alike in order to provide realistic solutions to problems both will face during this transitional period.
A must-read for any parent frustrated or heartbroken over their child's difficulties striking out ontheir own.