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    Sara and Eleanor: The Story of Sara Delano Roosevelt and Her Daughter-in-Law, Eleanor Roosevelt

    Sara and Eleanor: The Story of Sara Delano Roosevelt and Her Daughter-in-Law, Eleanor Roosevelt

    by Jan Pottker


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      ISBN-13: 9781466864511
    • Publisher: St. Martin's Press
    • Publication date: 02/04/2014
    • Sold by: Macmillan
    • Format: eBook
    • Pages: 416
    • Sales rank: 376,818
    • File size: 622 KB

    Jan Pottker is the author of seven previous books, including Janet and Jackie: The Story of a Mother and Her Daughter, Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis. Pottker's interest in Sara and Eleanor was sparked when she realized that a myth had grown around Eleanor at the expense of Sara---much the same as the relationship between Jackie and her mother had been underplayed and distorted over time. Pottker has a Ph.D. from Columbia University and lives in Potomac, Maryland, with her husband, Andrew S. Fishel.


    Jan Pottker is the author of books including Celebrity Washington, as well as the co-author of Dear Ann, Dear Abby: The Unauthorized Biography of Ann Landers and Abigail Van Buren. Jan Pottker has a Ph.D. from Columbia University and lives in Potomac, Maryland, with her husband, Andrew S. Fishel.

    Table of Contents

    Prologueix
    1"French by Ancestry, Dutch by Birth, and English by Association"1
    2On the West Bank of the Hudson River Lived the Delanos7
    3"My Orderly Little Life"16
    4The Contented Spinster25
    5On the East Bank of the Hudson River Lived the Roosevelts30
    6"A Gentleman of the Old School"38
    7Hyde Park43
    8"A Democrat Can Be a Gentleman"48
    9"Sallie and Mr. Roosevelt"52
    10"We Three"61
    11The Oyster Bay Clan68
    12"A Beautiful Frame"75
    13Groton School80
    14Allenswood School85
    15Mother and Guardian89
    16Sparks and Smolders94
    17"For Life, for Death!"100
    18"Keeping the Name in the Family"107
    19Roosevelt and Roosevelt115
    20"Dearest Mama"120
    21"Modern Ideas"129
    22"The Chicks"135
    23"A Really Fine and Dignified Position"147
    24"Launched in Your Work"158
    25"The Traditions Some of Us Love Best"166
    26"A Kaleidoscope of Work"174
    27Miss Mercer181
    28"Our Boy"187
    29"Rainy Day"196
    30"Solidly Important Individual"201
    31"'I Got Up This Party for You'"210
    32Grit and Grace218
    33"Eleanor's Work Among the Women"225
    34Splintered236
    35"If He Does, I Hope He Wins"247
    36Happy Days259
    37First Mother266
    38"The Duchess"272
    39Gracious Lady, Modern Woman285
    40"You Are My Life"295
    41"Hyde Park and Me"300
    42"The Dowager Mrs. Roosevelt"309
    43"A World of Peace"315
    44"The Truth Must Be Shown"324
    45Brave Heart329
    46"Every Play Has to Have Its Heavy"336
    47Epilogue343
    Notes347
    Acknowledgments387
    Index395

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    We think we know the story of Eleanor Roosevelt--the shy, awkward girl who would marry Franklin Roosevelt and redefine the role of First Lady, becoming a civil rights activist and an inspiration to generations of young women. As legend has it, the bane of Eleanor's life was her demanding and domineering mother-in-law, FDR's mother Sara Delano Roosevelt. Biographers have overlooked the complexity of a relationship that had, over the years, been reinterpreted and embellished by Eleanor herself.


    Through diaries, letters, and interviews with Roosevelt family and friends, Jan Pottker uncovers a story never before told. The result is a triumphant blend of social history and psychological insight--a revealing look at Eleanor Roosevelt and the woman who made her historic achievements possible.

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    Publishers Weekly
    Pottker (Janet and Jackie: The Story of a Mother and Her Daughter, Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis) has made a specialty of tell-alls about the wealthy and the powerful, from the Mars family to Ann Landers and Abigail Van Buren. But in Sara and Eleanor a study of the complex, sometimes supportive, sometimes contentious relationship between FDR's wife and mother Pottker embarks upon serious historical waters. Navigating across a story already well traversed by such superb writers and researchers as Blanche Wiesen Cook, Geoffrey Ward and Betty Boyd Caroli (the latter in 1998's The Roosevelt Women), Pottker unfortunately, despite her protestations, has nothing new to add to the well-worn tale of these two fascinating ladies. One comes away from Pottker's book wondering why she believed another retelling (one that comes at the story far less eloquently and authoritatively than previous efforts) to be necessary in the first place. The answer lies, apparently, in Pottker's revisionist tack when it comes to key details. For example, Pottker somewhat astonishingly in the face of much testimony to the contrary discounts the notion of Franklin ever having had a true affair with Eleanor's social secretary, Lucy Mercer. But the revision in question is purely speculative on Pottker's part, not based on evidence. Both Eleanor and Sara deserve and have gotten in the past far more accurate accounts of themselves. Readers should refer to those. 16 pages of b&w photos not seen by PW. Agent, Mel Berger, William Morris. (Mar.) Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.
    Library Journal
    Pottker (Janet and Jackie; Dear Ann, Dear Abby) considers another power relationship, that of Sara Delano Roosevelt and Eleanor Roosevelt. Contrary to popular belief, she would have readers believe that Sara was not a gorgon, a racist, an anti-Semite, or a snob; she supported FDR's political career and treated her moody daughter-in-law warmly. At most, Pottker concedes that Sara was something of a meddler. Moreover, Eleanor owed Sara her marriage because Sara apparently warned Franklin that a divorce from Eleanor meant the end of Sara's largesse. Accordingly, Eleanor comes off less well. Emerging from her painful childhood to become a depressed and emotionally unavailable mother, she is shown initially welcoming Sara's extravagant attentions to her and Franklin's children and then carping about them in retrospect. Pottker has extensively researched this book and filled it with convincing and engaging details to make her case for Sara. She takes a defensive tone-not surprising considering that Sara has taken it on the chin from Dore Schary (in Sunrise at Campobello) and Eleanor herself, whose retrospective criticism of her mother-in-law has informed recent scholarship. So perhaps Pottker's sympathetic portrait is overdue. For public libraries.-Cynthia Harrison, George Washington Univ., Washington, DC Copyright 2004 Reed Business Information.
    Kirkus Reviews
    A thoroughly researched, though highly chatty and oddly superficial, attempt to rehabilitate the image of FDR's mother, which was besmirched, the author argues, by less sympathetic Roosevelt biographers. Pottker (Janet and Jackie: The Story of a Mother and Her Daughter, 2001, etc.) writes for the Princess Di set, for lovers of royals and riches and American dynasties. Here are accounts of who was wearing cream taffeta at which Roosevelt wedding; here are six pages devoted to the 1939 visit to Hyde Park of Queen Elizabeth and King George VI and the spats between Eleanor and Sara about the menu. Here is such a concern for the exteriors of people's lives (what they wore, where they lived, how their homes were decorated, what they drove, where they traveled, what they bought) that interior lives must almost always be inferred, and then only with difficulty. Pottker just doesn't want to get into it. Neither, in this strangely prudish account, does she wish to be more than coy about sexual issues. The author tells us that the teenaged Eleanor installed triple interior locks on her bedroom door because of drunken uncles. What does that mean? You won't find the answer here. Nor does the author give credence to stories that FDR and Lucy Mercer actually had sexual relations. No, she claims, it was just an intimate relationship. Pottker tries to focus on the stories of the two titular women, but that's hard to do with FDR filling the stage with his charm, his polio, his political successes. And, besides, the author's principal intent is to reinstall Sara Delano Roosevelt on her pedestal-Sara, the woman who was on the cover of Time before her son (or daughter-in-law), the woman who was the heart andsoul and financial officer for the Roosevelt clan. In short: the mother of all matriarchs. Skims across the surface of a very deep lake. (16 pp. b&w photos, not seen) Agent: Mel Berger/William Morris
    From the Publisher
    "Fills a long-standing void in the Roosevelt story and adds tremendously to our understanding of Roosevelt personal history."

    - Eleanor Roosevelt Seagraves, grandchild of Eleanor Roosevelt and Franklin Delano Roosevelt

    Eleanor Roosevelt Seagraves

    Fills a long-standing void in the Roosevelt story and adds tremendously to our understanding of Roosevelt personal history.
    Lillian Vernon
    "A compelling and engaging biography of two independent women whose story is an inspiration to all."

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