“Infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the road, even though it often feels that way. Couples can, and do, often find their way to an ultimately deeper, more intimate bond, and I can think of no better guide to lead the journey than Tammy Nelson.”
—Ian Kerner, PhD, sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First

“The New Monogamy takes an honest look at infidelity and illustrates a clear path toward healing after an affair.”
—John Gray, PhD, author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“The New Monogamy sets Tammy Nelson apart from many other therapists. She doesn’t believe affairs simply involve a pathetic victim and an arrogant perpetrator—and that’s why she can actually help couples navigate this difficult challenge.”
—Marty Klein, PhD, author of Sexual Intelligence

“Provocative and juicy, far-reaching and intelligent.”
—Janis Abrahms Spring, author of After the Affair and How Can I Forgive You?

“This book is a game changer for couples dealing with the aftermath of an affair. It is unique in offering hope that this experience can be used to build a new and better relationship. But it offers far more than just hope; it provides detailed guidelines for how to make it happen. Tammy Nelson is a visionary in going beyond the immediate need to develop a new monogamy agreement to include the all-important process of revisiting and revising this agreement over time.”
—Peggy Vaughan, author of The Monogamy Myth and host of www.dearpeggy.com

“Tammy Nelson is a master therapist who can help you find hope and opportunity in the multiple crises caused by an affair. The New Monogamy offers safe, effective steps through the confusion, betrayal, and hurt—with guidelines for how you can create more honest, erotic, and soul-satisfying relationships.”
—Gina Ogden, PhD, LMFT, author of The Return of Desire and The Heart & Soul of Sex

“At a time when life can feel so murky and chaotic, along comes Tammy Nelson with this guidebook…. The New Monogamy is as crisp and clear as it is hopeful and realistic. A book to open again and again.”
—Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity