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    The Self-Propelled Advantage: The Parent's Guide to Raising Independent, Motivated Kids Who Learn with Excellence

    The Self-Propelled Advantage: The Parent's Guide to Raising Independent, Motivated Kids Who Learn with Excellence

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    by Joanne Calderwood


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      ISBN-13: 9781614482970
    • Publisher: Morgan James Publishing
    • Publication date: 10/01/2012
    • Sold by: Barnes & Noble
    • Format: eBook
    • Pages: 248
    • File size: 567 KB

    Joanne Calderwood is a professional educator-turned-mom who has a heart for teaching parents to teach their kids to teach themselves with excellence and motivation. She holds a B.S. in Elementary Education and has been actively working with children for over twenty-five years. She has been a youth director, a houseparent at a children’s home, a fourth grade teacher, and has borne her own eight children. Her first four home-educated, self-propelled children have all attended the colleges of their choice on full academic scholarships. She has been a regular columnist in Homeschool Enrichment magazine for several years, where her column, “The Underwhelmed Homeschooler,” with its revolutionary methods and loving, gracious style has encouraged, blessed and de-stressed thousands of parents. Joanne is the founder of URtheMom.com, where she encourages parents to let go of the bicycle and watch with amazement.

    Table of Contents

    Preface xiii

    The Power of a Parent xiv

    The Greatest Choice You Will Ever Make xv

    For Home Educators and Non-Home Educators Alike xvi

    Introduction xix

    How Our First Four Students Earned Free College Educations xxi

    Chapter 1 Excellence in Motion 1

    The Startling Truth 3

    Goals and Success 5

    How I Lost My Mind 7

    Benefits Beyond Education 11

    Experience: The Best Teacher 12

    The Bicycle Analogy 13

    Letting Go 14

    The Three Elements of the Self-Propelled Advantage 16

    Self-Learning 16

    Mastery 16

    Self-Mastery 19

    The Most Important Thing 22

    Chapter 2 Operation Motivation 24

    Sources of Motivation 25

    Attitude Is Everything 25

    Ownership 27

    What If? 29

    Types of Motivation 30

    Drive 32

    What About Grades? 33

    Time for Change 35

    The Marshmallow Study 36

    Seeing the Big Picture 38

    The Perfect Score Study 39

    Are Perfect Scores Weird? 41

    Perfect Score Kids and Motivation 41

    The X Factor 42

    What About the Parents of Perfect Scores? 43

    Home-Educated Students and the SAT 43

    A Word on Parenting 44

    Self-Esteem 46

    How to Demotivate 47

    Final Thoughts on the Perfect Score Study 48

    Purpose 49

    Bonus Tip: Four Little Magic Words 50

    An Inner Drive to Succeed 51

    Chapter 3 Educational Options 55

    Public Schools 57

    Public Schools and the Self-Propelled Advantage 60

    Private and Parochial Schools 61

    Private Schools and the Self-Propelled Advantage 63

    Home Education 65

    Home Education and the Self-Propelled Advantage 68

    Why Not Choose Home Education? 70

    Which Type of Education Is the Best? 70

    What If Both My Spouse and I Work Full-Time? 72

    If You Don't Know Where to Start 74

    Chapter 4 Element 1: Self-Mastery 76

    A Parent's Incredible Impact 78

    Public Displays 79

    How Do You Teach Self-Mastery? 80

    The Five Steps to Self-Mastery 81

    Who Runs Your Home? 81

    Step 1 Set House Rules and Expectations 82

    Expectations and the Very Young Child 82

    Expectations and Older Children 84

    Keys to Expectation Setting 85

    Step 2 Set Consequences 89

    The Power of a Praising Parent 90

    A Thankful Heart is a Happy Heart 91

    Discipline 92

    Other Discipline Issues 94

    Discipline and Guilt 95

    Self-Mastery and the Advantage 96

    The Behavior Barometer 97

    The Fruit of Effective Parenting 98

    Home Education Is No Silver Bullet, But... 100

    Step 3 Family Meeting 101

    Group Discussions 102

    The Parent-Child Meeting 104

    Natural Consequences 105

    Deferring Discipline to Dad 106

    Combining Steps 106

    Discipline and the Single Parent 107

    The Past 108

    Step 4 Observer and Respond 108

    Step 5 Repeat as Needed 109

    Showing Respect 109

    Teen Issues 110

    The Link 112

    Chapter 5 Element 2: Mastery Mindset 115

    Is Teaching to Mastery Cheating? 116

    What is the Goal of Education? 118

    Why Don't Schools Teach to Mastery? 119

    Success Motivates! 119

    How to Instill the Love of Learning 120

    A Mindset of Trust 121

    The Gift 125

    Mandated Mediocrity Versus Mastery 126

    Government Regulations 126

    Tips for Students in a Classroom 127

    In Conclusion 128

    Chapter 6 Element 3: Self-Teaching 129

    What Is Self-Teaching? 129

    Self-Teaching and the Classroom Environment 131

    An Overview of Self-Teaching 132

    Who? 132

    Where? 133

    Why? 133

    How? 135

    When? 135

    Negatives? 135

    Cornerstones of a Self-Teaching Home 136

    Record Keeping as Motivation 137

    A Sometimes-Overlooked Benefit of Self-Teaching 138

    Conclusion 139

    Chapter 7 Self-Teaching and Young Children 140

    The Five Steps to Self-Teaching Success 142

    A Parent-Directed Approach 142

    Step 1 Provide a Planner 143

    Step 2 Gather Curriculum 143

    Step 3 Set Short-Term Goals 143

    What Does the First Day of School Look Like? 145

    A Note About Lesson Times 146

    Working Ahead 146

    Readiness 147

    Step 4 Monitor 148

    After Each Quarter 148

    Parent-Directed Learning with a Reading Child 149

    Transition Time 150

    Step 5 Letting Go 150

    Chapter 8 Self-Teaching and Older Children 152

    Student-Directed Learning for Middle School Students 153

    Student-Directed Learning for High School Students 153

    Courage to Face High School 154

    Focus on Strengths 155

    How Does this Mesh with Mastery? 156

    The Five Steps to Self-Teaching Success 158

    Step 1 Provide a Planner 159

    Step 2 Gather Curriculum 159

    Step 3 Set Short-Term Goals 160

    Fleshing It Out 161

    Breaking It Down 162

    At the End of a Quarter 163

    Step 4 Monitor 163

    What is Accountability? 164

    To Test or Not to Test 166

    At the End of the Year 167

    Grades 169

    Step 5 Let Go of the Bicycle) 170

    Ultimate Goals 171

    Chapter 9 What About Curriculum? 172

    Worldview 174

    Home Education and Curriculum 175

    What's More Important Than Curriculum? 175

    How to Use Curriculum 176

    Virtual Schools and Curriculum 177

    When You May Need to Change Curriculum 178

    Pulling Back the Curriculum Curtain 181

    Curriculum Conclusion 183

    Chapter 10 High School and Beyond 185

    Self-Teaching in High School 186

    High School Record Keeping 187

    Advantages for the Self-Propelled High School Student 188

    The College Admissions Process 189

    Preparing Your High School Junior for College 190

    Senior Year Sanity Tips 193

    Scholarships and Financial Aid 194

    What About CLEP Tests? 196

    AP Exams 197

    Dual Enrollment 198

    Distance Learning 198

    Summary 199

    Helping Your Student Uncover His Areas of Interest 199

    Start at the End, Work Backwards 201

    Chapter 11 Calderwood Kids Speak 205

    A Student's Take on Self-Teaching 205

    Siblings Speak 209

    Questions for the College-Aged Kids 212

    Chapter 12 Your Legacy 215

    What Are You Seeking? 216

    What I Would Change 217

    One Final Question 217

    Bibliography 219

    About the Author 221

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    A home education expert and mother of eight shares her experiences and insights into harnessing a child’s natural desire to learn.
     
    Joanne Calderwood has been a popular magazine columnist for several years and has become a popular speaker at home-education conferences across the country. Her self-propelled philosophy of education has transformed lives across the nation and around the world. In The Self-Propelled Advantage, Calderwood shares her wisdom, experience, and philosophy of education and parenting, as borne out in the lives of her own exceptional children.
     
    Informative and inspiring, The Self-Propelled Advantage is for any parent who places a high value on their children’s education. Detailing her methods for raising inquisitive, diligent, self-motivated children, Calderwood also shares valuable information on preparing for college entrance exams like the SAT and ACT. Having taught one SAT perfect scorer, one near-perfect scorer, and four students who have gone to college on full academic scholarships, Calderwood has proven how successful her methods can be.

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