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    What to Expect the Second Year: From 12 to 24 Months

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    by Heidi Murkoff, Sharon Mazel, Mark D. Widome (Foreword by)


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    Heidi Murkoff is the author of the What to Expect® series of pregnancy and parenting books with over 38 million copies in print. She is also the creator of WhatToExpect.com and the WhatToExpect app, which reach over 18 million expecting and new parents, and the What to Expect Foundation, a nonprofit organization dedicated to helping at-risk moms around the world expect healthier pregnancies, safer deliveries, and healthy, happy babies.

    Table of Contents

    Foreword Mark Widome xii

    Introduction: Bye-Bye Baby, Hello Toddler xv

    A Toddler Timeline: The Second Year at a Glance 2

    Developmental Milestones in the Second Year 3

    12 to 13 Months

    It's Cumulative

    13 to 14 Months

    14 to 15 Months

    15 to 16 Months

    16 to 17 Months

    17 to 18 Months

    18 to 20 Months

    20 to 22 Months

    22 to 24 Months

    Chapter 1 Your Toddler on the Grow 10

    What You May Be Wondering About 10

    Growth Charts

    TWINS Different Growth for Different Folks

    Measuring Your Wiggly Worm

    The Tubby Toddler

    MILESTONE Height and Weight

    The Thin Toddler

    Potbelly

    ALL ABOUT: Growth Charts 16

    Chapter 2 Your Toddler, Head-to-Toe 20

    Hair Care

    A Sticky Situation

    Hair-Brushing Hijinks

    Time for a Trim?

    Shampoo Struggles

    Chemicals in Shampoo?

    Eye Care

    Spotting Vision Problems

    Blinking

    Getting Glasses

    Ear Care

    Signs of a Hearing Problem

    Sound Defense

    Ear Piercing

    Tooth Care

    Tooth Problems Don't Fall Far from the Tree

    Toothbrushing Tussles

    Time for Fluoride Toothpaste?

    Teething, Round Two

    Teeth and Sweets

    MILESTONE Tooth Timetable

    Gaps Between Teeth

    Preparing for the Dentist

    Visiting the Dentist

    Skin Care

    MILESTONE Keeping Clean… By Myself

    Bath Rejection

    Hand-Washing Resistance

    It's a Dirty Job

    Dry Skin

    Chapped Cheeks

    Eczema

    Other Skin Rashes

    Skin Check

    Screening Out the Sun

    Sunscreen Struggles

    Nail Care

    Nail-Trimming Trials

    Foot Care

    Funny Feet

    The Mystery of the Missing Arch

    Choosing Shoes

    Time for New Shoes?

    If the Shoe Fits …

    Girl and Boy Parts (a.k.a. Genitals)

    Bottom Care

    Strange Stools

    The New Scoop on Poop

    The Diaper Wars

    No More Diapers?

    Playing with Diaper Contents

    ALL ABOUT: Thinking About Toilet Training 61

    Potty Ready Signs

    MILESTONE Potty Readiness

    FOR PARENTS But Are You Ready?

    Potty Able Signs

    Potty Prep

    Toilet-Training Trends

    Ready …Set … Go Potty

    Chapter 3 Your Toddler on the Go 68

    What You May Be Wondering About 68

    Walking

    MILESTONE Getting Up and Going

    Encouraging Walking

    TWINS Walking to Different Beats

    Delayed Walking

    Going Back to Crawling

    Coordination … or Lack of It

    Born Early?

    Taking the Ouch Out of Falls

    Climbing

    Climbing Out of Crib

    Very Active Toddler

    MILESTONE Let's Play Ball

    Less Active Toddler

    ALL ABOUT: Getting Physical 80

    Outlets for High-Energy Toddlers

    In the Swim

    Ways to Unwind

    Chapter 4 Feeding 84

    The Second Year Diet 84

    Introducing … Healthy Habits

    Additives Add Up

    Mix It Up

    The Second Year Daily Dozen

    Drink Your Vitamins?

    Don't Get Your Toddler Juiced

    It's Milk Time

    Serving Size Matters

    What You May Be Wondering About 94

    When to Wean from the Breast

    How to Wean: From the Breast

    How to Wean: From the Bottle

    When to Wean from the Bottle

    Cup Conflict

    Straw Power

    Sippy Savvy

    Belated Bottle Weaning

    Milk Rejection

    Milk Allergy

    Milk Measures

    Food Allergies

    Appetite Slump

    MILESTONE Self-Feeding

    Up-and-Down Appetite

    Messy Eating

    Self-Feeding Sloppiness

    Food Blowing

    Food Fetishes

    The Fussy Eater

    Try, Try Again

    Banishing Beige Boredom

    Ordering Up Trouble?

    Vegetable Snubbing

    Gratifying a Snack Attack

    Fun with Food

    Favorite Food Rejection

    Restless Mealtimes

    Mealtime Entertainment

    Switching Out of a High Chair

    A Vegetarian or Vegan Diet

    Dining Out with a Toddler

    Choking Risks

    ALL ABOUT: Food Safety 123

    Safe Produce

    Chemicals Aren't Kids' Stuff

    The Dirty Dozen … and the Clean Team

    Safe Meat, Poultry, and Fish

    Is It Done Yet?

    One Fish, Two Fish … No Fish?

    Safe Dairy

    A Moldy Situation

    Safe Eggs

    Safe Drinking Water

    BPA in Food Containers

    Chapter 5 Sleeping 131

    What You May Be Wondering About 131

    Bedtime Rebellion

    MILESTONE Sleepy Time

    Night Waking

    Pillow Talk

    Making Bedtime Routine

    Waking for a Reason

    Sleep Training Revisited

    Active Today, Peaceful Tonight

    Does a Whimper Mean Awake?

    Late Bedtime

    Sleep by Association

    Middle of the Night Feedings

    Early Rising

    Daylight Saving Time and Bedtime

    Crib Notes

    Catnapping

    From Two Naps to One

    TWINS A Good Night's Sleep Times Two

    Too Late Naps

    Weight for Sleep

    Too Short Naps

    Resistance to Napping

    Snoring

    Nightmares

    Nightmares vs. Night Terrors

    Moving to a Bed

    Night Wandering

    When a Threesome Isn't Your Speed

    ALL ABOUT: Establishing Good Sleep Habits 153

    Chapter 6 Behavior 156

    What You May Be Wondering About 156

    The Into-Everything Toddler

    Behavior at a Glance

    Exploring the World … By Mouth

    Opening and Shutting

    Emptying Things

    Dropping Things

    Hello, New Baby

    The Little Destroyer

    Throwing

    Banging on Everything

    Screeching and Screaming

    Hitting

    Keeping Your Baby Safe from Your Toddler

    Biting

    Taming Aggression

    FOR PARENTS At the End of the Day

    Hair Pulling

    Aggressiveness with Toys

    Thumb Sucking

    Continued Pacifier Use

    A Comfort Object

    Comfort at a Cost

    No Comfort Habit, No Problem

    Head Banging and Other Comfort Habits

    Rituals

    Ritual Red Flags

    Embracing the Routines

    Resistance to Change

    Clinging

    No Clinging Here

    Cutting Those Strings Safely

    Separation Anxiety

    FOR PARENTS The Long Good-bye

    A Preference for One Parent

    TWINS When Twins Tarn Green with Envy

    When Baby Makes … One Too Many for Your Toddler

    Stranger Suspicion

    No Fear of Strangers

    Wandering Off

    Teaching Street Smarts

    Fears and Phobias

    Fear of Dogs

    Facing Fears

    FOR PARENTS Is It Time for a Pet?

    Pet Prescriptions

    No Fear of Dogs

    Negativity

    Hug It Away

    FOR PARENTS When to Say "Yes" to a "No"

    Not Listening to your "No"

    Whining

    FOR PARENTS Feeling Down

    Unreasonableness

    Impatience (Now!)

    Demanding Attention

    Car Seat Conflict

    Stroller Struggles

    Arch Enemy

    A Ride to Obesity?

    FOR PARENTS Shopping with Toddlers: Mission Impossible?

    Dressing Dilemmas

    A Toddler in the Buff

    Self-Dressing Frustrations

    Having Fun Getting the Job Done

    Challenging Toddler

    Living with a Challenging Temperament

    ALL ABOUT: Taming Tantrums 234

    The "Terrible Twos" Start Now

    What's Behind Your Toddler's Tantrums?

    Heading Off Tantrums

    FOR PARENTS Don't Be a Cave-Mom

    Being Held Hostage by Breath Holding?

    Tantrum Dos and Don'ts

    Time-Outs for Tantrums?

    FOR PARENTS Keeping Your Cool

    Public Tantrums

    After the Storm

    For-Parents-Only Tantrums

    FOR PARENTS Join the Club

    Chapter 7 Disciplining Your Toddler 244

    What Discipline Is…and Isn't 245

    Discipline Basics

    FOR PARENTS Staying on the Same Page

    Discipline Strategies That Work 248

    Discipline Methods

    Win-Win Solutions

    FOR PARENTS Take a Time-In

    Spanking: Don't Do It

    Making Discipline Effective

    Life with Limits

    ALL ABOUT: Right and Wrong 254

    Chapter 8 Talking 256

    What You May Be Wondering About 256

    Not Talking Yet

    MILESTONE Talking

    The General Idea

    Conversation Frustration

    Signing In

    TWINS Double Talk

    Loss of Vocabulary

    The Gift of Gab

    Unclear Speech

    Only One Word at a Time

    ALL ABOUT: Getting Your Toddler Talking 266

    Chapter 9 Learning 270

    What You May Be Wondering About 270

    ABCs and 1-2-3s

    Raising a Reader

    The ABCs of P's and Q's

    A Taste (Literally) for Literature

    Reading Repetition

    What's This? What's That?

    Toddler Classes

    Computers

    Teaching Time

    Educational DVDs

    TV Watching

    The Trouble with TV

    ALL ABOUT: Cultivating Curiosity 284

    Chapter 10 Playing and Making Friends 286

    What You May Be Wondering About 286

    The Power of Play

    MILESTONE Fine Motor Skills

    Toys for Toddlers

    Presenting Fewer Presents

    Clutter Control

    Righty or Lefty?

    Toy Safety and Older Sibs

    MILESTONE Playing

    FOR PARENTS Toddler Game Tedium

    A Short Attention Span

    Independent Play

    A Start in Art

    MILESTONE Color by Number

    Music Making

    Dance Fever

    Playground Trepidation

    Playground Safety

    Playdate Guidelines

    Playdate Clinging

    Starting a Playgroup

    Have a Little Slugger?

    TWINS Double the Fun

    Playing with Others

    Bad Habit Swapping

    Being a Pushover

    Trouble Taking Turns

    Difficulty Sharing

    Sharing, Caring… or Showing Off?

    When you Gotta Share

    The In-Your-Face Toddler

    No Rough Stuff

    Not-So-Nice Behavior

    ALL ABOUT: Making Friends 318

    Chapter 11 Traveling with Your Toddler 321

    On the Go with Your Toddler 321

    Wherever You Go

    Traveling By Car

    Fun on the Go

    Curbing the Queasies

    Traveling By Plane

    Passports for Half-Pints

    Junior Jet Lag

    Traveling By Train

    Tantrums to Go

    A Traveling Toddler's Tummy

    Choosing a Family-Friendly Hotel

    FOR PARENTS Toddler-Free Travels

    Chapter 12 Keeping Your Toddler Healthy 341

    What, You Can Expect at Checkups 341

    Doctor, Doctor

    Fear of the Doctor

    You Know Your Child Best

    Tell It Like It Is

    Immunizations 346

    Recommended Vaccinations

    FOR PARENTS Vaccines: They're Not Just for Kids

    When to Call the Doctor After an Immunization

    Should a Cold Delay a Shot?

    Recommended Immunization Schedule for Early Childhood

    Better Late Than Never

    The Reality About Immunization Myths

    Taking the Fears, Tears, and Ouches Out of Shots

    Immunization Precautions

    Calling the Doctor 356

    When to Call the Doctor

    Where Does It Hurt?

    No Silly Questions

    Before You Call the Doctor

    Your Toddler's Pain Threshold

    Figuring Out Fever 363

    Taking Your Toddler's Temperature

    Febrile Convulsions

    Reading the Thermometer

    Treating a Fever

    Typical Body Temperatures

    Fever: Just Part of the Picture

    Caring for a Sick Toddler 369

    At Home

    FOR PARENTS When You're Sick

    In the Hospital

    Prepping for a Hospital Stay

    ALL ABOUT: Medication 373

    Getting Medication Information

    Online Meds: A Prescription for Danger?

    Herbal Remedies

    Giving Medicine Safely

    Don't Give These to Your Toddler

    Acetaminophen or Ibuprofren?

    Helping the Medicine Go Down

    The Most Common Toddler Illnesses 380

    Common Cold

    Good News About That Runny Nose

    Your Smoking Is Bad for Your Toddler's Health

    Ear Infection

    Tubes for Toddlers

    Some Probiotics with Those Antibiotics?

    Flu

    A Sore Throat

    Croup

    Keeping Germs Contained

    Constipation

    Diarrhea

    Signs of Dehydration

    Urinary Tract Infection (UTI)

    The Most Common Chronic Conditions 392

    Allergies

    Is It an Allergy? or a Cold?

    Life-Threatening Allergies

    Asthma

    Asthma…or RAD?

    Celiac Disease

    When the Food-Allergic or Celiac Toddler Steps Out

    Seizures and Epilepsy

    Hearing Loss or Impairment

    Hearing Tests

    Chapter 13 Second Year Safety 404

    Safety in the Home 404

    Being Careful Doesn't Mean Being Obsessive

    Childproofing Around the Home

    Safety Gates

    Safe Heights

    Mechanical Fascination

    Red Light Greenery

    Lead Can Lead to Trouble

    No Gun Is a Safe Gun

    Happy Holidays Without the Hazards

    Childproofing the Kitchen

    Poison Control

    Not a Do-It-Yourselfer?

    Childproofing the Bathroom

    Dressing for Safety

    Childproofing the Laundry Room

    Childproofing the Garage

    Childproofing Toddler Toys

    Delecting Trouble

    Certifiably Safe

    There's No Substitute for Supervision

    Indoor Pest Control

    Calling All Recalls

    Safety When Out and About 425

    Outdoor Safety

    A Safe Place to Play

    Safety Around Bugs

    Outdoor Water Safety

    Safety in the Snow

    Car Safety

    Sunny and Mild? Not in the Car

    A Safe Ride

    ALL ABOUT: Teaching Your Toddler to Be Safe 436

    Chapter 14 Treating Toddler Injuries 440

    Preparing for Emergencies 440

    First Aid for the Toddler 442

    Abdominal Injuries

    Bites

    Bleeding

    Bleeding, Internal

    Broken Bones or Fractures

    Bruises, Skin

    Burns

    Chemical Burns

    Choking

    Cold Injuries

    Convulsions

    Cuts

    Dislocation

    Dog Bites

    Drowning (Submersion Injury)

    Ear Injuries

    Electric Shock

    Eye Injuries

    Fainting

    Finger and Toe Injuries

    Foreign Objects

    Fractures

    Frostbite and Frostnip

    Head Injuries

    Heat Injuries

    Hyperthermia

    Hypothermia

    Insect Bites or Stings

    Lip, Split or Cut

    Mouth Injuries

    Nose Injuries

    Poisoning

    Poison Guidelines You Should Know

    Poison Ivy, Poison Oak, Poison Sumac

    Puncture Wounds

    Scalds

    Scrapes

    Seizures

    Severed Limb or Digit

    Shock

    Skin Wounds

    Stocking the Medicine Cabinet

    Making a Boo-Boo Better

    Snake Bites

    Spider Bites

    Splinters

    Sprains

    Sunburn

    Swallowed Foreign Objects

    Objects in all the Wrong Places

    Teeth, Injury to

    Tick Bites

    Toe Injuries

    Tongue, Injury to

    First Aid for Toddlers: Choking and Breathing Emergencies 463

    Check, Call, Care

    CPR: The Most Important Skill You'll Hopefully Never Need

    A-B-C

    Which Comes First

    Rescue Breathing

    Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation (CPR): Children Over One Year

    First Aid for a Choking Toddler

    Chapter 15 Developmental Disorders 472

    What You May Be Wondering About 472

    Autism Spectrum Disorders

    Down Syndrome

    FOR PARENTS Helping Your Child

    Sensery Processing Disorder(SPD)

    Developmental Delays

    Finding Help

    ALL ABOUT: Living With Your Special Child 480

    Helping the Healthy Sibs

    Index 485

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